Have you read every book, article, and blog on the Law of Attraction? Have you attended every workshop, lecture, and class on manifesting your desires and still need help? You're not alone.
The Law of Attraction is so painfully simple that we manage to self-sabotage every chance we get.
Belief is the key.
Feeling is the secret.
Everything you can imagine is real.
If you desire it, it was meant to be yours.
"Faith causes the unseen to become present." - Ernest Holmes
If it helps, try to think of your desires as a heads up to you as to what is coming and not something you need to conjure up. Then make the shift from knowing it is coming, to knowing you already have it, that it is already done.
It's easy to over complicate it. You have to consistently bring yourself back to the rules.
If you imagined it, it is achievable. If you can feel it, it will appear.
If we know it, it is so. If we believe it, we will receive it.
Shift from wanting something to feeling like you have it.
Decide on the "what" and the "how" will show up.
Worrying about the how is the biggest obstacle you create for yourself. Stop being a control freak. Just focus on the thing itself and how it feels having it. Do not try to control the mode of delivery. Your brain is too limited. The universe's perspective is unlimited.
If you think that what you want can only come to you in one certain way, you're never going to get it. If you think it can only come in a certain way, you're going to miss it when it flies right past you in a different form than you were expecting.
The "how" is not your job. The "how" is none of your business. You can guarantee the "how" will be worth not knowing. Let go of needing to know. The how will unfold if you let it.
Your job is the easy part: Think of what you want and generate the feeling of having it now. Don't make it harder!
YOU ARE WORTHY!
You don't need to work harder, loose 20 pounds, or finish that degree to earn your desires. Your desires don't have conditions. Your desires are your birthright. You already have them.
YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH!
No one is any more deserving of what you want than you! You don't have to earn it. You're not taking from someone else. Someone else is not going without so you can have. They can do this too! Allow what you want to reach you, give yourself permission to have.
YOU ARE QUALIFIED!
People will start asking questions and want to to know how you got what you wanted. Tell them! It's not about luck. It's not about coincidence. It's not about being at the right place at the right time. You created what you wanted with your thoughts and feelings.
It's how you create your own reality and there are no prerequisites to do that.
Fear is needless.
You have the ability to choose where to put your attention. Become aware of your focus. Are you focusing on the good or the negative?
You can't want something and then focus on nothing but the opposite of it occurring. If you worry that your desire is not going to manifest, then guess what - you get what you focus on.
(I need more money or I'm going lose my house. I don't want to lose my house. What's going to happen if I lose my house? Oh my god I don't want to lose my house!)
Focus on having. Do NOT fixate on losing something, or why is it taking so long, or what if it doesn't come. Remember, true belief is the key!
Don't give one thought to how disappointed you will be if it doesn't show up, this holds it at bay. Release resistance by knowing that it is done.
The secret to having it all is believing you already do. And being grateful - thank you I am keeping my house.
You get what you think about. If you're always preoccupied with thoughts of needing money, not having enough money, then you will continue to manifest not having enough money.
Remember to be thankful for what you desire in advance. Come from a place energetically of already having. Semantics matter, you can tell the difference energetically how each of these statements make you feel by saying them out loud:
Notice the difference? Needing is not a vibrational match to having. Needing cancels out having.
Keep the energy of having alive. What does it feel like to have enough money? It feels like relief. It feels like joy. It feels exciting. It feels like bliss. It feel relaxing. It feels like freedom.
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