Lonely Are The Indigos

Indigos feel lonely because we don't feel like that we're even from here (Earth). We often struggle to find our place in this world with systems we don't want to be a part of. We don't seem to be like other people or care about the same things. We're waiting for our soul family to come and find us.

We often question why we would even come here and assume that we must have made a wrong turn somewhere. 

For example, when I was studying abroad in London one summer, our class was scheduled to meet somewhere off campus. Before leaving the dorms, I had asked someone at the front desk for directions. Apparently no one else did! Because no one from my class got off the tube when I did. Not one person said a thing or came with me. They just watched me exit and let me go on my way.

I got to the meeting point and no one was there. I was just standing there by myself waiting and waiting. I started to get scared and second guess myself. Maybe they had all gotten there before me and already left without me. I started to walk all around searching the streets looking for anyone from class. By the time I got back to where we were supposed to meet everyone was there now and I looked like the one that had gotten there last.

I was first and right all along. I knew the quickest way to get where we were going. And yet somehow I end up looking like the loser.

This is how my entire life feels. Like I'm way out ahead and nobody is here with me. I've already got to where we're all going and I'm standing here by myself waiting for the others to show up. 

It's so frustrating.


Indigos have one foot in the spiritual realm and the other in the physical.


Indigos are usually the first ones in their families and social circles to "wake up." So we're running on different software. We have upgraded our programming and are trying to operate in world still running on 3D. We are straddling dimensions and trying to connect them.

It's hard for Indigos to stay grounded. Being out in nature is our refuge. You'll often find us out in the woods, climbing mountains, or near the water. We tend to spend more time with nature and animals than with people.


Indigos despise small talk and shallow conversations.


Indigos are truth seekers. We're contemplative and introspective. 

We're often immersed in trying to understand our existence through personal growth and self-awareness. Indigos have higher perspectives and can see outside the box. This makes small talk and conversations with those stuck with old perspectives quite unbearable and just adds to our feelings of being alone in this world.

We'd rather talk about who you are as a person and why. What are your core beliefs and where did they come from?

We want to know your suggestions for solving the world's problems and how we should implement them. We think about the puppet masters and ways to take them down and wake people up. 

Indigos can feel quite lonely being in a room full of people talking about pointless shit. It's also incredibly draining.


Indigos experience life as the observer rather than the participant.


Indigos are both appalled and fascinated by social norms. We don't partake in a lot of "normal" activities. Extreme socializing often leads us drained and depressed.

Indigos can tend to withdraw and do things on our own. Not because we want to but just because we don't have someone to do something with, doesn't mean we're not going to do them.

We want to be around people but prefer the company of those that can relate to us. Who doesn't want to hang out with people that are compatible? 

We'd rather be alone then with fake people doing stupid things that don't matter.


Indigos want to be with their tribe.


Indigos yearn for a conscious community. We are sensitive. Is sucks to be around people that don't care about the things that we do.

Indigos suffer from loneliness and depression because we're so outside the norms. We see things others cant's. We care about things others don't. We want to change things others won't.

We feel the weight of the world on our shoulders. We have big jobs to do and little to no support. We get overwhelmed with this sense of duty to change the world.  This can lead to anxiety.

Our bodies are continuously undergoing often painful and tiring cellular upgrades. As the vibrations increase within us and on Earth our body has to go through an upgrade to hold the new frequency. No one seems to understand what we are going through or even believe it.

Indigos often live lives that are rather unconventional. This can breed resentment and sometimes hostility from those people who are playing the 3D game and doing what they're supposed to. They gave up their dreams to live a life of security.

We rarely obtain the approval from others. We are frequently the "black sheep." We just want to be around our people, have deep connections, and make a difference.

*This is always one of my top 3 most read pages month after month. So know there are lots of us out there and you are not alone! Check out Metatron's message to those that feel alone.


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